What if the wife has changed?

What if the wife has changed?

What if the wife has changed?

What if the wife has changed?

 

 

This question is one of the most painful for every man, as when exposing such truth both the male psyche and self-esteem suffer. An insoluble question settles in the head of a man to whom his wife “turned on her horns”: what does a lover have such a thing that he didn’t have? As a result, the man considers himself to be inferior, and every glance at the cheating wife reminds the man of the moral pain experienced. Most often, such families soon fall apart - and it’s good if the case goes without bruises and blood.

 

Wife changed?

 

 

So, what to do if the wife has changed? Here, in fact, each case is purely individual - it depends on the nature of the man himself, and on the circumstances in which the act of adultery took place on the part of the wife. We analyze on situations.

 

Most frequent treason- when the wife is disappointed in her husband as a lover and is looking for a friend for sexual pleasures.It is difficult to measure the sexual hunger of a woman who is not satisfied with the relationship with her husband - and sometimes this fact leads to the presence of a constant lover and regular betrayals. Calculate a similar case is easiest for any man: to hide regular cases of meetings with a lover and every time to come up with plausible excuses is very difficult, and the secret becomes clear. In this case, the man should either try to talk to his wife and come to a compromise, or quit. It is more expedient to accomplish the second: it is unlikely that it will be possible to regain the loss of trust once, especially if the betrayals occurred for a long time.

 

In the case of an unintentional betrayal- in a drunken state, on the occasion of a corporate or something similar, where the betrayal is of a single character without the presence of a permanent lover - it is almost impossible to calculate it and it often remains a mystery. If you find out about her, it is only if the wife herself, tormented by conscience, confesses to you in this shameful fact. In this case, you can show some condescension: after all, honest recognition deserves some encouragement.Try to pay more attention to your wife and show that she is dear to you. This, no doubt, will touch her and discard her from subsequent possible betrayals. If the fact of betrayal suffocates your principled position on the topic of family life, then your roads will diverge.

 

In general, the whole point is whether you will be able to return to the relationship former trust and understanding. Only they are crucial in whether you can continue your family life or not. If you reconcile and believe your spouse that this was the last time, then you still have a chance. If not, then, you see, to spend the rest of my life, figuring out why she was late at work or with which friends she went for a walk, would be very sad. If you do not feel willing to believe and give your wife a second chance, then it’s easier to disperse right away than torturing yourself and offending her. Although ... it's up to you, of course.


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